{"id":19242,"date":"2016-06-06T15:24:33","date_gmt":"2016-06-06T22:24:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sharefaithblog.wpengine.com\/?p=19242"},"modified":"2017-10-26T16:07:03","modified_gmt":"2017-10-26T23:07:03","slug":"5-simple-ways-encourage-your-child-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sharefaith.com\/blog\/2016\/06\/5-simple-ways-encourage-your-child-today\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Simple Ways To Encourage Your Child Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Having the mindset to encourage your child is immensely important for their spiritual growth. Discouragement is an unwelcome storm cloud that darkens life. It drains the fun out of things we enjoy, causes us to pull away from those we love, and robs us of our passion for truly living. Sadly, discouragement is not exclusive to adults. Our children can find themselves walking under this dark cloud. However, as parents, you\u00a0can eliminate discouragements \u2013 you\u00a0can encourage your child today!<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In Proverbs 16:24 (NLT), the Bible teaches us: \u201ckind words are like honey \u2013 sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.\u201d Speaking words of encouragement to our children literally brings them health, for both body and soul. Now that\u2019s an amazing promise! If your little one has been slumping under the gloom of discouragement, then it&#8217;s time to flood their heart with some light.<\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #808080;\"><b>5 Simple Ways To Encourage Your Child Today<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><b>Encourage Your Child&#8217;s\u00a0Mind<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you have ever heard your child say \u201cI\u2019m stupid\u201d or \u201cI\u2019m just not smart\u201d, you know how painful those words can be. Your child is not stupid, they are fearfully and wonderfully made by the King of Kings and Lord of Lords! Here are some examples of words we can speak to encourage your children\u2019s minds.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou are so smart, I know you\u2019ll figure that problem out.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGreat score on that test! It shows how hard you have been studying.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWhat a creative idea, you are so smart.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cClever solution! I\u2019ve never thought about it like that before.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI\u2019m impressed, you taught me something I didn\u2019t know.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><b>Encourage Their Heart<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The human heart is something only God himself can truly know. We all wrestle with our inner thoughts. We all struggle with insecurity, guilt and confusion. Sometimes, all we need is a reminder that we are loved, valued and appreciated. Here are some words we can share to encourage our children\u2019s hearts.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love you!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI always have so much fun spending time with you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou&#8217;re the best, you always make me laugh so much.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNo one on the planet gives better hugs than you!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI am so happy God brought you into my life.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><b>Encourage Their Body<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our bodies are a fundamental part of what makes us a person. This is why aging bodies can be so discouraging for us adults! But our children face a different kind of discouragement. Their bodies are in a constant state of change\/growth, and then puberty hits! All it takes is another kid making fun of how our child looks, and they\u2019re in a tailspin. Here\u2019s a quick list of phrases to encourage our children about their bodies.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWow, I can\u2019t believe what a handsome young man you\u2019ve grown in to.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou are beautiful, inside and out!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cHang on, flex again. That is a real muscle you\u2019ve got there!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI knew you were pretty, but you look so amazing in that dress.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou have the coolest eyes.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cI love the way you are doing your hair now, it looks so good.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMan you are getting fast, pretty soon you\u2019re going to beat me at soccer.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><b>Encourage Your Child&#8217;s Spirit<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We have all been made in the image of God and it isn\u2019t until we have trusted our lives to Christ that we ever find true peace and victory over discouragement. The greatest thing we can do as parents is to encourage your children in the Lord; to help awaken in them a knowledge of, and hunger for, God. Try to encourage your child in the following ways:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGod made you perfect! You are wonderfully made!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cJesus loves you so much and he always will.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNo matter what happens, God will always be there for you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cJesus died to pay for your sins, that is how much God values you!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cYou don\u2019t have to be afraid, God is mighty and he wants to help.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><b>Encourage Your Child&#8217;s Future<\/b><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The world can be a scary place, and the uncertainty of the future can make it more so. As our kids grow, they slowly get a taste of the pain and brokenness of this fallen world. Parents, in turn, need to encourage our children. We need to let them know that, in Christ, their future is secure and full of hope!<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGod has big plans for your life!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cGod has placed special gifts in you that you haven\u2019t even discovered yet!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWith Jesus, you can do anything! Nothing is impossible!\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNo matter what happens, God promises to never leave you.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cEven if life gets hard, God has given you the amazing promise of heaven to look forward to.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Encouragement is more than a good idea, it is a command from God, \u201cencourage one another and build each other up\u201d \u2013 1 Thessalonians 5:11 (NIV). As parents, we have the responsibility and the privilege to \u00a0build our children up with encouraging words in all areas of their lives.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having the mindset to encourage your child is immensely important for their spiritual growth. Discouragement is an unwelcome storm cloud that darkens life. It drains the fun out of things we enjoy, causes us to pull away from those we love, and robs us of our passion for truly living. 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